9.4.24 Batah Conditioning
Hello! We come today to speak about conditioning. This plays a large part in the energetic blocks we create that keep us from high frequency states. We want to help you determine when conditioning is at play so that you can retreat and take a different route.
First, beginning with you, your conditioning is that of ‘safety at all costs.’ This is the basis of your conditioning. Safety is a common theme for those that suffer trauma. Others conditioned beliefs and needs can be quite different, perhaps finding themselves in a place where they are conditioned to be moving at all costs, or perhaps silent or to always be ‘on’. They may have needs like social status, reputation, success or the American dream. Their conditioning puts those things at the highest priority. Regardless, the only thing that should be at the top is love for yourself and others – at all costs. Love of others is secondary, but equally important.
You can see the that love for yourself and others is in direct conflict with ‘safety at all costs’. This is why it is your arena of growth and learning. You can be assured, when you are acting on ‘safety’ needs you are not winning in the arena of love for yourself and others. This is true for anyone, say for example, putting success first often means sacrificing caring for self and others. The safe or comfortable action based in the conditioned belief takes you away from your goal of being a leader of love.
Traci asked Batah “Can’t caring for yourself look like the ‘comfortable’ choice?” Yes! Of course. Deep connection with self ensures that caring for yourself is more important than caring for others. Being in touch and connected with Body ensures rest is taken when required. This is a holistic approach to achieving that what is required of you. Care has to be taken to determine why the desire for comfortability. Is it a conscious choice for rest and recuperation or is it avoidance of risk or a try at safety?
Inquiry within will shed light on your internal state. Are the bounds of your comfort zone being pushed? Is there too much upset to feel comfortable? Does ‘comfort’ need to be generated by other means than ‘retreat’? There are many ways to generate comfort that does not block your progress. You know many. The key is recognizing the need and employing the tools you have available. Where do you go right to ‘comfort’ at all costs? What is the body and mind state? Are there cues you can pick up on? Are there ways to pick it up early versus later in the throws of an over-loaded state?
You have the power to change your energy in an instant. You have worked hard to learn to do so. This is your key to getting past your conditioning. When you feel the need for ‘safety’ or to seek comfortableness in your preferred conditioned response, stop and change your energy state. Open, allow, release what isn’t serving you and dig in with a determination to activate a different energy. Activate an energy that is useful to you, something helpful to your goals at the moment. You are a powerful creator, this is how you will do it. Retreating is a conditioned response. We are here to release you from you conditioning, to be free to create your dreams. We also want to add that you are not destined to suffer with ‘safety at all costs’, you are destined to lead others through their conditioned responses and begin a new way of being – free from their conditioned judgements.
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